Having a tough time attracting the woman that you want into your life? Whilst it can seem difficult here are some tips that can help you in your quest.
The plan for the way to make a girl really like you
Don't be a dork, lol. What do I mean by that? Well don't be one of those pussy boys who lets attractive girls walk all over them. Now don't get me wrong, you should pay all due respect, but if you are one of those guys that constantly keeps phoning her up, sending text messages and declaring your undying love, it actually wears a bit thin after a while, even though you might think differently and not see the logic in it. It's repelling to ladies. It's automatically included in a woman's unconscious mind that they are hunting for a man that would perhaps be a father to their child (top guideline for
how to make a girl fall in love with you).
Knowing when to shut up and listen is also going to get you a long way, females like talking endlessly about themselves so be a good potential partner and listen up! It will work wonders for you, and try not in interrupt them too many times. Make sure you are giving her the attention she deserves, if you want her as your partner then it's worth making the effort and paying attention right? One of the worst things you can do is actually be eying up other girls whilst you are with her, this will definitely rock the apple cart in the wrong direction.
During the time you are together and engaged in conversation, it's an important time to build up rapport with her so that she likes you. We can do a lot by remembering that all humans are more likely to feel an affiliation with other humans that are similar to them, it's very much an unconscious thing that takes place. A great trick for creating rapport with someone is to 'mirror' them. Maybe she is sitting with legs crossed, you could do the same, or if she has arms folded you could slowly move over time to mimic her position. Perhaps if she is excited and talking in such a way you can too, or the other end of the spectrum, if she's talking slow and soft you can mimic this. You get the idea right, you are kind of copying what she does but in a way that she won't consciously notice (takes practice).
One of the biggest problems that you should be able to avoid fairly easily is that of becoming a friend. If she sees you as a friend, it can actually be very difficult to get out of that category so do your best to stay out of that category, do what you can to get the message across that you are interested in more than just friends. There are many body language and unconscious techniques that you can use to make sure that she is getting the message that you want more than just her friendship.
Don't make the mistake though of trying to charm her into bed, this probably won't work and will leave you out in the cold permanently. The easiest way to get a girl into bed, is to
get her to invite you!
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